The Art of Resilience: Learning from Extreme Conditions

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Early in my career, I had an opportunity to learn how steel is made. You might wonder how this connects to leadership and my low-carbon values, but bear with me. To forge steel, it must endure extreme temperatures repeatedly to become stronger and more resilient. However, if done incorrectly, the steel can become brittle. Similarly, leaders today face intense challenges. Their response determines whether they become rigid or adapt, learn from each experience, and develop resilience as a key leadership tool.

The pandemic woke us all up to the idea that one crisis can change our reality overnight. But possibly the more profound lesson is that all kinds of events could have far-reaching implications for the organizations we lead: economic downturns, wars, the rise of artificial intelligence, and electoral politics.

And then there are the major events that are specific to each individual organization, such as the loss of a key client or staff person, a staffing challenge, a legal issue, bad press, or a catastrophic mistake. A great way to approach our current reality is to think like “a futurist.” Futurist Amy Webb tackles this in her recent SXSW talk and a recent Harvard Business Review article.

Many leaders thrive in this environment because they do three things. First, they acknowledge the role their emotions are playing. The goal isn’t to ignore emotions, but to understand that they are fleeting. Dr. Rick Hanson likes to say that “your brain is like Velcro for negative experiences and Teflon for positive ones.” Susan David’s work on Emotional Agility is a fabulous resource, and I really enjoyed the conversation from Dr Lisa Damour on the Making of Inside Out 2.

Second, good leaders don’t just move on once a crisis is over. Instead, they reflect. What happened and why? Where does it leave us? What needs to change about our strategy in light of this experience? Are there new opportunities or challenges? And most importantly, leaders need to ask: What have I learned from this moment? What do I need to change moving forward as a result?

These types of questions are incredibly important to ask frequently, maybe even daily. To sit back and only review circumstances every year or quarter is a tremendous missed opportunity. In this era of social media, we are conditioned to move onto the next thing quickly, regular reflection can help balance this out.

And what does that reflection look like? It includes the questions above, as well as any others that lead to “sliding glass door moments”. Asking these questions is a skill, and the questions make you a better leader. Make it a regular practice.

The third element is to simply begin again, to restart with what you have learned, focused on the present moment, with an open mind.

Change is always coming, and grounded leaders have a process for how to learn from it. Of course, actions we take during a crisis are important. AND in between, we have to recognize that there is a choice in acting on a stimulus (internal or external). I can’t say it better than Dr. Viktor Frankl: “Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.”

#ResilientLeader #ThinkLikeAFuturist #EmotionalAgility


I also want to give a shout out to all those amazing inventors working on lower emissions steel and the #climatetech community supporting them!

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Brigid McCormack

Brigid McCormack is an evangelist for exceptional leadership. Brigid believes leadership is a skill that can be developed, cultivated, and honed over time. For the past 24 years, Brigid has worked inside mission driven organizations. As an executive and leader, her passion has been to identify and develop strong leaders, create inclusive cultures and enable employees to not just have meaningful careers but also to flourish. Brigid now works as an executive coach with leaders on an individual basis to accelerate or enhance their leadership skills.

Her journey began with a love of the natural world. At a young age, her father took her birding in California’s Sierra mountains, and Brigid quickly learned the names and sounds of all her favorites: the pileated woodpecker, the cedar waxwing, and the red-winged blackbird. Serving in the Peace Corps, she confronted the polluted legacy of a century of an extractive economy in Ukraine.

After eight years as a major gifts fundraiser—first at the Wharton School at the University of California and then at Stanford’s Graduate School of Business—her passion for protecting nature drew her to senior leadership roles at ClimateWorks and Audubon California. She has spent the last five years advising high net-worth clients entering the climate philanthropy space.

The drive for coaching

Herself the beneficiary of terrific mentors and executive coaches over the course of her career, Brigid always placed a premium on building the leadership skills of the team around her—from the early career managers to seasoned directors to C-suite. Among her proudest accomplishments is empowering some of California’s rising conservation leaders.

While her passion for the natural world has never waned, Brigid has shifted her focus to working closely with the leaders who will propel mission-driven organizations to success.

Qualified and inspired

In addition to her own executive experience, Brigid is Hudson Institute trained executive coach, a Dare to Lead trained facilitator, and a Tara Mohr Playing Big Facilitator. She has a BA in History and BS in Biology from Santa Clara University and a MS in Environmental Management from University of San Francisco.

Brigid still takes time to get outside and listen to the birds of Northern California, while hiking, running, or backpacking with her family. The peaceful moments are important, fuel for her work with the people and organizations working hard to stop the climate crisis and conserve natural places.